tell me about yourself communication skills

Tell Me About Yourself

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights

This was a question that was often asked in job interviews. I used to think that it was a lazy question from the interviewer. No imagination in posing that question. It was non- specific and vague. Then I realized that it might be a brilliant question because of the vagueness. The vagueness of the question would probably disrupt the comfort of the candidate. Let’s see how they handle this challenge.

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Introduce your guest speaker

How to Introduce your Guest Speaker – live or virtual

George TorokInsights, Presentation Tips, Public Speaking

Introduce Your Guest Speaker with Bravado
When you are asked to introduce a guest speaker, grab the opportunity because it’s a chance to practice your speaking skills and connect with the speaker.
An introduction is a mini speech. Remember you are not the star so don’t try to steal the stage from the guest speaker. The audience didn’t show up to listen to your introduction so don’t try to be the entertainment. The speaker will appreciate a warm and inviting introduction.

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How to pitch to a podcast host

If you want to be a guest on a podcast…

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Intended Message, Podcasting

If you want to be a guest on my podcast the most important question you need to answer is, “What will you do for me?” It’s not about you. When I receive a pitch in which every sentence starts with “I, me or my” you’re not talking about me and my interests. You didn’t grab my attention. What would grab my attention?

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What is the purpose of your presentation

A Successful Presentation Starts and Succeeds with a Clear Purpose

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Presentation Tips, Public Speaking

I asked him to clarify the purpose of this presentation. That’s the first place for you to start when designing, reviewing and adapting your presentation. That’s also how you should measure the success of your presentation. He paused briefly to think about that, then started to ramble. I smiled and cut him off. “What do you want people to think, feel or do after your presentation?” I could see the light bulb go on in his mind.
Think, feel or do?

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don't litter your presentation with filler words

Do Not Sabotage Your Message with Filler Words

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Intended Message, Presentation Tips, Public Speaking

Reread that and see if you can pick out the filler words that steal energy from this speech. Imagine if you used these words in your presentation. What might that do to poison your intended message? Picking out the filler words is the first step to eliminate them. It starts with you becoming aware. Start listening to what you say when you speak…. ah, umm, like so, okay, right, you know…

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speaking mistakes the CEO can avoid

CEO Speaks Nonsense? What did she really mean?

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Intended Message

What happens when your words sabotage your message instead of conveying it? As CEO of your company your words are important. The messages that you deliver in public are evaluated by your investors, staff, suppliers, customers, competitors, marketplace and media. People will judge you and your company by your words. They might misjudge your message. That’s why it’s important to thoughtfully choose your words to convey your intended message.

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How to speak in Virtual meetings Zoom

How to Look better on virtual meetings: Think TV not Radio

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Virtual presentation, Zoom Meetings

How to Look better on virtual meetings: Think TV not Radio. Radio is only audio – words, voice, tone, pace pattern, music. The audio must be good.
TV is that plus the visual – body language, imagery, photos, movement. The audio must be good. The video must be better.
On TV the visual dominates the impact (if the audio quality is acceptable). Poor audio sabotages both radio and TV.
Let’s assume that your audio is acceptable. This standard can vary based on the circumstance and expectations.

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Tell your amazing story

How to Tell Your Stories

George TorokCommunication skills, Insights, Presentation Tips, Public Speaking, Story telling

The best speakers tell stories. Your audience forgets most of what you said in your presentation. They forget your name. If they remember anything, it’s your best stories. You know it was an effective story when they repeat it to others. They might not repeat it word for word – but they convey the essence of your message. That makes your presentation story a success.

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